It was back to the Sunday routine of going to my parents house this week. After not going last week. When I was there I found myself googling, “are dogs good for autistic children?” The reason being there has been talk of us possibly getting a dog.
It’s not something that is in the pipeline to happen immediately, and I just wanted to have a bit of a look at what information I could find. I found myself reading up on service dogs and therapy dogs. I’d heard them mentioned before, but this was the first time I’d read up on them.
It was fascinating, but we’d be looking at just getting a “normal” dog. I make no secret of the fact that I’d love to have a dog. I was brought up around dogs, and absolutely love my parents dog Mack. When I still lived with my parents, I used to go out with our dog Dylan for hours. I do miss that a lot.
We love animals
I come from a family that loves animals, and that’s certainly been passed on to Jack & Lily. They both love spending time with Mack, and my brothers dog Henry. But Jack especially, there are visible benefits from him being around a dog.
Although he gets excited around dogs, as far as anxiety goes, it calms him a lot. So would having his own dog keep him calmer at home? Having Dylan when I lived with my parents certainly helped with my mental health. Though it’s different with Jack, I do think it would help him too.
It would give him some companionship, something to love and look after. That unconditional companionship and friendship, is something I think Jack really needs.
Whilst also giving us all a reason to get out for some nice walks. Similar to how Jack never takes it out on his sister, when in a meltdown. He also never takes it out on animals that may be around.
It would be so helpful in so many ways. Unfortunately as we live in a rented property, it’s not as simple as just going and getting a dog. We have to get permission first, and it could involve an increase in rent. The rent is high enough as it is. So we will have to think about it.
We’d love to hear about your pets
There are lots of positive stories about dogs and autistic people, so that feeling of it being such a positive thing for Jack. Really makes me want to do it. I’d love to hear of any positive steories about autism and pets, or even negative ones where it didn’t work out. Perspective is always important. If your not living around autism, we’d still love hear about your pets, Jack and Lily always like to hear about people’s pets. So leave a comment below if you’d like to share what pets you have.
If you don’t have a dog but are thinking about getting one, click here to view an excellent post 102 scientific benefits of having a dog, by fluentwoof.com. It’s a great read, and if this doesn’t convince you to get a dog, nothing will. Then of course there is the question of what type of dog to get? Any dog can be trained to be a great family pet, but some breeds are definitely more suited than others. Like my personal favourite the Collie. For comprehensive information on this, I recommend reading this article by Your Dog Advisor, best dogs for children. There’s lots of information, and they list the best dog breeds to have with children. As always, thanks for reading.